Why playing during family sessions is so important

One of the biggest challenges of family photography is capturing real, joyful expressions. When kids are asked to sit still, smile on command, or hold a pose for too long, their expressions can quickly become forced or even frustrated. But when children are free to play, their natural happiness shines through. Running, laughing, chasing bubbles, or playing peek-a-boo with their parents creates authentic moments that a camera captures beautifully.

A Stress-Free Experience for Parents and Kids

Let’s be honest—getting kids to cooperate for a structured photo session can be stressful for parents. When children feel pressured to behave a certain way, they might get irritable, leading to tears, tantrums, or reluctance to participate. By shifting the focus from strict posing to playful interaction, kids feel more at ease, and parents can relax. The result? A much more enjoyable experience for everyone.

Telling a Story Through Movement and Interaction

Candid, lifestyle photography is all about storytelling. When children are encouraged to play, their movements, interactions, and natural curiosity bring the images to life. Whether it's a little one twirling in a dress, a child hugging their sibling, or a toddler excitedly running toward their parents, these moments capture the essence of family connections. Instead of stiff, posed pictures, you end up with storytelling images that feel warm and nostalgic.

Showcasing Each Child’s Unique Personality

Every child is different—some are outgoing and energetic, while others are more reserved and observant. Letting children play during a photo session gives them the freedom to show their true selves. Maybe your son loves climbing trees, or your daughter enjoys picking flowers. Encouraging activities that reflect their personalities results in photos that are meaningful and unique to your family.

Encouraging Connection and Interaction

Great family photography highlights love and connection between family members. When kids play during a session, they naturally interact with their parents and siblings, creating intimate, heartfelt moments. Whether it’s a child wrapping their arms around a parent, a giggling tickle fight, or a quiet moment of storytelling, these interactions create photos full of warmth and love.

Making the Session a Positive Memory

A family photo session shouldn’t feel like a chore—it should be a fun experience that kids look forward to. When play is part of the session, it becomes an adventure instead of an obligation. Instead of remembering a stressful day of trying to sit still and smile, children will remember laughing, running, and playing with their family. This positive experience makes future sessions easier and more enjoyable.

Capturing the Magic of Childhood

Childhood is fleeting, and there’s something incredibly special about capturing kids in their natural state—carefree, joyful, and full of wonder. Years down the road, you’ll treasure photos that reflect their innocence and spirit far more than perfectly posed pictures. Whether it’s a muddy puddle, a gust of wind messing up their hair, or a spontaneous burst of laughter, these moments showcase the magic of childhood in a way that staged photos simply can’t.

How to Incorporate Play into Your Family Photo Session

If you’re planning a family photo session, here are a few tips to make play a central part of the experience:

Pick an outdoor location. Bellingham and Whatcom County is home to so many beautiful parks and waterfronts, perfect for family photography sessions. Hovander Park in Ferndale is one of my favorites!

Engage in fun activities. Play games like tag, have a tickle fight, or dance together for spontaneous, joyful shots. Don’t worry, I will have suggestions throughout your sessions for fun ways to keep your children playing and interacting with the rest of the family.

Let go of perfection. Embrace the unpredictability of kids. Some of the best photos come from unexpected moments.

Letting children play during family photo sessions is the secret to capturing the most beautiful, authentic, and meaningful images. Not only does it make the experience enjoyable for everyone, but it also results in timeless photos that truly reflect the love, joy, and connection within your family. Let’s schedule a family session this year! We will let go of rigid posing and let the kids be kids—you won’t regret it!